Well I pushed him to try a few more rides before investing in a new seat...but he came home with a new one, it is sorta squarish shaped, no front triangular piece..he seems to think that will do the trick, I am not convinced. lol Glo you may be right lol new seat and all and I went alone today lol

(hey I looks up those rootbeer drinks, yummmy - I have to try one)
Bryan thanks, I will have him take the route of Colleen if his new seat doesn't do the trick, he was determined to figure this out on his own though...but I am betting he just needs to get a few rides in and work the muscles he hasn't in years and it will get better and or he will get used to it to a degree.
I am glad I got him out - I hope he gives it a sincere shot.
I'd SO love to buy a road bike, but heading back to school in the fall so I will be on the MTB for a bit yet, but that is OK, its all attitude - I will do what I can and give it my best and one day I will be in great shape for more toys.
Thanks folks,
Nancy